How to Really Choose What Language to Study

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Learn Spanish. It’s more useful.
No, learn German, good for technology.
I think you need to learn Russian, it’s important.
But… but… I don’t want to learn any of those!!!

How do you deal with a scenario like the one above? Do you go and learn a language simply because others want you to? Have you ever changed what language you studied because of peer pressure or because you don’t want to look stupid to your friends or family?

If you learn a language simply because others tell you to, you will fail.

Simple as that.

You just aren’t going to succeed if 1) you don’t truly love the language you are studying and 2) you don’t have any interest in the language.

So why waste your time trying?

This is how to really choose what language to study.

  • Don’t give a shit about what other people think about your language. You’re the one studying it.

Why should the fact that your mom doesn’t think you can use it in a future job or your friends don’t like someone from that country hold you back from studying it?  Learn whatever language you want to learn. It’s your life, isn’t it? Enjoy yourself.

  • Learn your language because you want to. Don’t learn it simply because it’s the ‘right’ thing to do.

I don’t care if half your local population speaks the language, if you have no interest in it you aren’t gonna get very far.

  • Learn a language you have a legitimate long term interest in.

Some people become constant wanderers, always looking for new languages to learn. If you are going to put all this time into something, chose something that you have a long term interest in, so that you’ll stick with the language rather than constantly losing interest.

Other important things to keep in mind when choosing a language to learn include:

  • Resource Availability – Let’s face it, a language such as Navajo is going to have less resources than, say, Spanish. The internet is great for resources, but some languages just won’t have many.
  • Native speakers to talk to or at least listen to – It is incredibly useful to be able to talk in your target language with native speakers, or to at least be able to listen to audio clips of these speakers. This’ll help you an incredible amount when trying to figure out pronunciation or when trying to get rid of an accent.
  • Encouragement from friends/family – Though I said earlier that you should learn a language even if your friends or family don’t like the language, support from these people is still very important. Your relationships with the people that are most important in your life shouldn’t end simply because of another language. Some things are more important.
  • Amount of time you are willing to put into learning said language – it takes a whole bunch of time to truly ‘learn’ a language. Are you willing to put in that much time?

So, what languages are you studying?

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  • http://www.fluenteveryyear.com/ Randy

    If you're soliciting opinions from others regarding what language to learn, you're probably learning for the wrong reasons anyway. How many times have I seen someone on Yahoo Answers (for instance) asking “I feel like I should learn a foreign language. What language should I learn?”

    With regard to staying interested, though one really cool thing about learning a foreign language is that it's really fascinating. It's hard not to grow more and more fascinated with it as you learn, even if you weren't really interested when you first started.

  • http://www.dreaming-in-italian.com/ ER

    Hey Fiona, I totally agree with you about learning a language you want to learn and tuning everything else out. My dad has tried to influence me to learn certain languages because of career motivations, but it never works out that way. You learn a language because you want to learn that language. It's too big of a commitment for something you're not into. Good post

  • http://www.babystepstofluency.com/ Fiona Verschoor

    I definitely agree, but, after all, some people do give their suggestions unsolicited – I've been told quite a few times by friends that they don't think I should learn this or that language because of this or that reason.

    I totally agree with staying interested, however, if you pick the right language to learn you get drawn into it more and more. That's definitely the case with me and Russian right now. :)

  • http://www.babystepstofluency.com/ Fiona Verschoor

    That's totally right, ER, it's hard enough to learn a language if you enjoy it, even harder if you feel forced into it.

  • http://twitter.com/ielanguages Jennifer Wagner

    This is why I'm against forcing people to take foreign languages at universities. My university required 2 semesters of a foreign language for the BA program, which meant the intro level classes were full of students who didn't give a damn about learning the language, and who just wanted to get their credit so they could graduate. It's really unfortunate and unfair to the students who do want to learn and especially to the teachers who have to deal with the unmotivated students who don't actually want to be there.

  • http://www.babystepstofluency.com/ Fiona Verschoor

    I got lucky with Russian that the people in that class mostly actually wanted to learn it, but I've definitely noticed that problem with the more popular languages (especially Spanish). Makes for a very slow, and boring semester, as the class only moves as fast as the slowest person.

  • http://www.marsdorian.com/ Mars Dorian

    True words, Fiona

    I started learning Japanese in 2007 and everyone around me thought I was crazy. I wanted to learn it because I fell in love with Japanese animation and video games. I've switched to Spanish now (actually similar in pronunciation!) and manly talk with Spaniards via Skype.
    You should always listen to your own voice, to hell with the other opinions…

  • http://www.allthingsgerman.net/ Graham Tappenden

    After 6 years of learning German at school, I went to study it at Aston University in Birmingham. One of my lecturers came into my first lecture with him and told us that we were all learning the wrong language.

    He said that no-one needed German anymore, with re-unification making German's position in Europe less strategically important. We should all be learning Spanish to be able to work in the emerging markets in South America.

    Of course, I finished my degree and moved to Germany. After only 3 years I was offered a chance to spend some time in South America, and ended up doing a crash course in Spanish (in German, ie. 2nd language to 3rd language) and kept thinking “if only I'd listened…”

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  • Liz

    I couldn't agree more. I learned French because I had a “legitimate long term interest in it” and I learned basic Italian because I just love the sound of it and I enjoy singing and talking in Italian. I don't enjoy the process of learning French but I have to speak French to achieve other goals and that helps me stay motivated.

  • http://mavericktraveler.com/blog ElGuapo

    Hmm, it depends what you wanna do.

    I lived in Brazil for a year, and learned Portuguese fluently. How many important countries speak it? Beside Brazil and Portugal, some few African states speak it. But I learned it because it's a cool language and sounds better than Spanish (imho).

    YMMV

  • http://twitter.com/tarasbmal Taras

    Good luck Fiona with your Russian learning! I'm always happy when someone picks up my native language for some reason :) .

  • http://twitter.com/tarasbmal Taras

    Good luck Fiona with your Russian learning! I’m always happy when someone picks up my native language for some reason :) .

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